Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. ― Albert Einstein
Coexistence is the essence of life; when it bottles down to relationships, marriage, and family, a man’s capacity to adjust with a woman is on the broiler. A man always loves to be a chauvinistic person; simultaneously, a woman can never tolerate it if she’s double-crossed or dominated. Today I’ll try exploring the common problems that men have with their women, my expedition might not be right or may not be satisfying as this is not my experience, and it’s only my findings.
Therefore, here is what men hate about women:
Before I begin, a man is the most passionate creation, and a woman is the most compassionate existence for a man. A woman can move mountains; she can mould situations; she is the most possessive and extra careful about him when it comes to her man.
#1: Don’t make him jealous
This is the worst prank you can ever play on a man. He hates it when his girl makes him jealous. Jealousy could be at different levels. Some men hate it if you are going to talk to another man, the majority of men hate it if their girl is going to flirt with another guy, and a lot of them hate women who drool over other men.
#2: Do not act in front of a man
Never pretend before a man; he can sense it all effortlessly. This factor also stands at different levels, like some would hate a girl with a fake smile, some might hate the walk, and some might hate pouting. So it’s always a precaution to not pretend.
#3: Red Lipstick
Do not try pouting with red lips in front of a man; it is the most annoying thing you can try, mainly because many men find red lipstick to be “too much” or “distracting”. Another reason is how it stains their face. Beware, but a few of them like red lipstick.
#4: To be desperate is to equal a disaster
Men generally hate desperate women. Men love attention but not an overflow of emotions and attention. Men tend to like women who are independent and ask for help when they really need it. Giving your man space is the best thing you can try if you want him to be around often.
Having a good sense of humour is integral and essential for every relationship from both sides. If there is an imbalance, as in one side is funny, and the other isn’t, both will suffer greatly, and there will raise a lot of mood swings and irritations.
#6: Don’t make him wait
A man frankly hates waiting. It is cute in the starting, but once it gets old, it gets annoying. Make your beautification process a little bit faster. The men prefer things to happen at a faster pace, respect their ideology at times.
#7: Don’t annoy him
Isn’t it annoying to text or call a person over a million times? Yes, you might be sensitive about your guy, but his “space” shouldn’t be disturbed. Calling him every second to find out if he is fine is not a quality that men appreciate. Try to reduce that.
#8: Don’t keep spying
Spying is the worst activity a woman can try. Men hate it when a woman constantly is on a spree to spy and check phones. Don’t be the suspicious one. Men hate it if a woman doesn’t trust. Trust is the most expected quality a man looks for.
#9: When she can’t forget her “Ex.”
A man hates it when his woman is always ranting about another man she was previously attached to. Guys hate it when she tries to bring up her ex in every possible conversation. Don’t worry about your ex at the cost of your current.
#10: Complaining and whining
Men hate tantrum throwers, complainer, whiner or a lady who rants. Men hate interfering in matters that are not related to them. He also hates it when a woman always finds faults with him. He might not be perfect, but he is trying to be; helping him out will not be much of a deal.
#11: Women who jump into conclusions
Women always think they have larger brains and jump to conclusions that are not at all relevant. Also, after jumping to conclusions, they love to prove themselves right, literally “Always”. A woman’s false assumption makes a man hate her more than his old school friends and grades.
#12: Talk too much
Talking non-stop is surely not a man-pleasing habit. Many men don’t admit to being put off by mannerism, but they’ll build up a hatred towards you. Men prefer maintaining silence. Don’t bring p your man’s past transgressions over and over again; men hate it.
#13: Loud and noisy
females Who feel they should compete not only with other females but also with their man. There is no need to compete against a man; you don’t have to prove him anything; for him, you just have to be there.
#14: Cling equals slime to men
Cling females are annoying and irritating. “If you feel you need a guy in your life, go back to daddy”, a man would outrightly say it to a woman who’s clingy as glue.
#15: Getting drunk in public
It is a no-no for men because when a woman gets drunk, she acts weird. This act might incite the onlookers. Men hate it when their lady creates a ruckus in a social event.
#16: Being a mouthpiece
A woman must consult her man before she answers for him. Men find it aggravating. They hate it when someone else decides for them.
#17: Diet conscious
Social stigma and the fear of looking fat makes every girl conscious about her eating. Men hate girls who have a lock on their appetite. Men generally don’t like a skinny woman.
#18: Being over expensive
Men don’t like high maintenance woman because they are too difficult to please and need constant attention. This kind of girls drives guys crazy because they can be crazy and unusual.
Girls are really nosy and good at finding information about other people. Guys find this quality appreciable at the same time creepy; they don’t like being secretly monitored.
#20: Drama Queen
Men hate it when a girl transform into a Drama Queen. They hate the woman who makes a big deal out of everything, especially petty stuff.
This post might be information providing but might not true at all points in time. Guys are cool in their own ways and love to tame their girls their way. A woman also is understanding most of the times. What makes a relationship perfect is the spark and the understanding. Once both sides understand each other, they don’t have grudges against each other.
An Introvert’s Guide To Valentine’s Week – Enjoy Singleton
Well, let me tell you all, in this context you’re not alone. Here is a to-do list that shall get your introverted self through the valentines week. You might be thinking, why was this not suggested early? Well better late than never.
1. Rose Day
Well the optimists are going to tell you to plant trees, but we all know what we are going to do, we aren’t going to plant trees instead we’re going to go to the botanical garden, get a rose plant for ourselves and grow the roses that we want in our lives all throughout the year, because we know the ones that would be given to the partners wouldn’t last for reasons not mentioned *wink-wink*
2. Propose Day
Optimists are gonna tell you not to feel bad about not being asked to stay in someone’s life forever, there is more to life than that. Yes, there is, we are going to sit comfortably at our homes in our sweatpants and go gaga over “proposals-gone-wrong “ videos all night and be thankful what you didn’t have to be a part of.
3. Chocolate Day
Your friends might try to cheer you up by telling you not to eat chocolate, it would harm your health, but what we are going to do is put some old pop cult music on and get our inner Gordon Ramsays out and BAKE, chocolates, cakes, cookies, everything that lasts. Excuse me? They’re not for other people; they’re for you, you deserve them after a day worth of cringe from the cuddle-junction you have been the third wheel for.
4. Teddy Day
Well, we can’t decide if that’s a day where you give out teddy to weirdly overaged people who are immature at heart or just a day to misguide our children by giving them an impression that things don’t change when you grow up. On this day your introvert self shall buy a 10 ft. of fabric and a pot load of cotton, cut the fabric into half of the same shape sew it together, leave a small hole, fill it with cotton. Here you go, you made yourself a giant plush toy that isn’t demanding, doesn’t talk, just listens and is amazing to cuddle around with; above all will never leave you.
5. Promise Day
Here we aren’t doing anything because this day is irrelevant. Promises are meant to be broken, and we do that on an everyday basis. Recall the number of plans you promised to go for but cancelled. Also, we lie in “ truth or dare” there is no way anybody would keep their promises. Plus, we don’t need a day to be honest, because this is our everyday.
6. Hug Day
The worst of all days is this one, especially for the people who absolutely hate skin shipping, I feel you guys. Everywhere you go, people are hugging each other, and their sweaty-smelly bodies come in contact with each other. You stay home and be happy, now you’ll be the last one to get Coronavirus, and all these dolls would cry.
7. Kiss Day
Hi vegetarians! Where are you? Welcome to the day you get deceived and half of you “dharm-bhrasht “ your way through the day unknowingly sorry to break it to you like this, but it’s the truth. Also, it’s the day when you find out the oral hygiene of a person without them having to tell you so if that’s a journey you’re willing to go through, by all means, be the world’s guest. Or sit at home read your favourite book, floss your mouth, look at your white teeth and feel sorry for people who ended up with the kind mentioned above.
8. VALENTINES DAY
Don’t go out, don’t, just don’t. You want to see an episode of the 50 shades you might as well Netflix; you don’t have to go out for a version of 50 shades -desi. STAY IN, put on a romantic movie where either the girl or the boy dies, make yourself a hot water bath, light yourself a scented candle and get yourself through the day of the LOVERS LIKE A BAWSS.
You can thank me later all you single introverts, but for people who celebrate this week/day…Have fun!
5 Best Hotels To Take Your Partner On Valentine’s Day In India
Valentine’s day is just a few hours away, and it’s time to decide where to take your loved one to make them feel special. Paint this special day with hues of love and all the romantic things, both for yourself and your special one. You have a full week of special days like chocolate day, promise day, rose day, teddy day, which ultimately leads up to our fabulous Valentine’s day. Markets are filled with unique items like greeting cards, gifts, balloons and chocolates, so why not give it an extra special touch by taking your partner to a perfect restaurant for an extra special date?
Here’s the list of best restaurants in the top 5 metropolitan cities in India: Delhi, Kolkata, Bangalore, Mumbai and Chennai.
1) Hilton Garden Inn, Saket, Delhi
Valentine’s day celebration here is filled with lots of couple activities and an array of delicious food. It’s time to pamper your loved one with cocktails, live music, and delightful gourmet presentations at India Grill, one of the capital’s beloved spots for Indian cravings. The intimate interiors and the perfect ambience created by the mild romantic music in the background will serve as an ideal boost for the date you two deserve.
Price: Dinner buffet starts at INR 3999 per couple all-inclusive at India Grill. Special valentine offer includes 4 beers along with one appetiser at just INR 777 per person inclusive at High Spirits.
2) Souk, Taj Bengal, Kolkata
Designed to impress and dazzle, if you choose this stunning fine dining restaurant this Valentine’s day, then you are sure to enjoy a luxurious date with your partner. This is nothing short of sophistication, and exoticness all rolled into one.
Where: Taj Bengal, Belvedere Road, Alipore, Kolkata
Timings: 07:00 PM to 11:45 PM
Cost for 2: Rs. 3500
3) Blue Bar, Bengaluru
Nothing feels more special than a table for two exclusively set for you and your partner in a unique manner. This experience will be definitely tailor-made for you and having dinner at one of the best hotel properties with a swift touch of authentic Vietnamese food will make it even more special and romantic. A lavish candlelight dinner in a 5-star hotel with some champagne is sure to make this Valentine’s day absolutely memorable for both of you.
Cost for 2: Rs. 4800
4) The Peshwa Pavilion, Mumbai
The relaxed and laid black feel, from the ground floor at the lobby to the glass ceiling, will make your Valentine’s day with your partner even more romantic. The restaurant serves the country’s finest and most elaborate breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets, which portrays the hotel’s expertise in Indian, Asian and inventive international cuisine.
Cost for two: Rs.5000
Address: Andheri East, Mumbai
5) Kefi – Taj Club House, Chennai
One of the most romantic rooftop restaurants in Chennai, Kefi is probably the best place to take your partner to if you are situated in Chennai. The restaurant specialises in the Mediterranean, Lebanese, Moroccan, Spanish cuisine, which makes it a restaurant to definitely give a try.
Cost for two: Rs. 3000 (approx.)
Where do you think you will take your loved one to make your Valentine’s day extra special?
Valentine’s Week Celebration In Kolkata
As mid-February, approaches with the dying coldness of winter and the rejuvenating hints of emerging spring, the sparks of warmth, love, and passion are rekindled. It is the month of love — February 14th, Valentine’s Day is a day away. However, we all know that valentine’s day is not just a day celebration; it’s a week-long celebration of love —Valentine’s week—ultimately culminating into the much-awaited climax.
Kolkata’s Valentine’s celebration
Although in the City of Joy, Kolkata, the romantic mood has already set in from the time of Saraswati Puja, widely regarded as the “Bengali Valentine’s Day”. This pre-Valentine’s day was celebrated by fervent young couples dressed in traditional sarees and Punjabis crowding the landmarks of the love of the city. Many instances were reported where the couples had to wait in queues before they could enter the much-coveted premises of Rabindra Sarovar, and the grounds of the Victoria Memorial overflowing with people. Now as Valentine’s day is not that far, Kolkata is adorned with hues of love with decorations, offers, and events lined up.
The malls of the metropolis are stunningly decked up with red heart-shaped streamers, roses, balloons, fairy-lights, bathing the atmosphere in an ethereal glow. Jewellery shops provide special discounts. Famous hotels, restaurants and food chains like Radisson, Barbeque Nation, The Westin, Marriott are hosting live-band performances, DJ nights, candle-light dinners, banquets, valentine’s special buffet.
Fun activities like a chocolate workshop at Central Park on Chocolate Day, photography shoot at Eco Park on Rose Day, Valentine’s Day Cruise on River Ganges were definite eye-catchers.
The speciality of Kolkata lies in the fact that all the fun is not restricted to couples only. There is something or other for everyone, beyond the barriers of age group and relationship status.
Oxford Bookstore, Park Street, has organised an event “To All, With Love” where children would be telling stories, reciting poems of love and compassion, followed by games and puzzles. The highlight of the event is a highly fascinating one. The event, called “Be My Valentine”, a letter-writing contest where the participants pen down a letter to their favourite authors to win a chance to be gifted with a signed copy of the author’s book caught the attention of many.
Sky Turf, Kolkata, has another exquisitely unique event lined up for the season of love, concentrating on ‘self-love’ rather than romantic love. “Love is in the Air” organised by them is an open-air Zumba and salsa evening, solely for self-pampering wellness workout session accompanied by extravagant music and snacks.
Amidst the glittering malls, restaurants, bars, hotels, and specialised shops, the small locals’ stores, inconspicuous handmade goods markets also experience a rise in sales during this time. The street hawkers selling roses, balloons, hand-stitched teddies, and candies managed to get a better profit due to increased demands.
NGOs in Kolkata have taken the initiative to spread the awareness of buying local handmade items to mark the festival of love rather than going for elaborate, expensive shops. By doing this, one can truly make Valentine’s day unique and special, filling love and joy in the hearts of the needy, apart from their own.
Celebrate the feelings of love and togetherness this season and make the moments remarkable by spending time with the ones you love.
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